@babs272
Good Morning. I am not in Abbotsford but have visited there and loved it. What's the weather out there look like for the weekend?
As for the statement about surgery and recurrence, it can be an individual assessment and decision based on your history, type of cancer you have and stage.
They also look at the location of where the spread or "seeding" has occurred. In some cases it is to vast meaning too many locations and they feel that opening you back up again could possible worsen what is already occurring OR due to the locations it is not safe to do. It is a very hard to accept when you hear the words of it being off the table for you. What I can say is that you are not alone for that part of it and I, personally, am in the same boat. The only way they would open me up again would be if it risks outweighed the benefit in a more emergent situation. But I know for myself that situation is highly unlikely.
When do you start uour chemo? What combo will you be receiving? How are you feeling about it emotionally and what you face physically?
It sounds like you are battling a couple of things at once. How is your body handling it? How are you doing mentally? Supports in place for either to assist you in getting through this part of your journey? Don't forget you can always contact Wellspring and that can assist you should you be experiencing any difficulties or need some support. Maintaining a log and talking g to your team about how you were in between treatments will be helpful to you as well.
Wishing you minor side effects and the strength to carry on this next phase of your treatment.
Take care